Why join When We First?

Matchmaking creates meaningful connections.

Our innovative features, and our human-led approach to matching will guide you to your perfect partner.

At When We First, swipes and likes are out. We are humans, and we match you for genuine connections.

Our platform offers a range of membership options designed to be the last dating choices you'll ever have to make.

Whether you're looking for complimentary basic features, or premium benefits such as advanced filters, verified profiles, and personalized coaching, When We First guides you to your ideal match.
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Explore, connect, and build meaningful relationships in ways you never thought possible.


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Membership Benefits

When you become a member and meet our matchmakers, you're welcomed with a range of digital tools, one-to-one assistance, and world class expertise.  All of this is done so you can present yourself in the best possible light.

Verified Profiles

Trust is everything. Ensure authenticity with photo and identity verification. Less wasted time, a safer experience, and  better results.

Advanced Filters

Refine your search with filters like parental status, education, and politics.

In-Depth Insights

Access detailed analytics on profile views that are all about you.

Premium Matches


Matchmaking means you get daily custom matches and increase your chances of finding your person.

Guaranteed dates


Upon interview approval, work directly with a matchmaking team.

Personal Coaching and Profile Reviews

Receive tailored advice and tips from professional dating coaches or have us set up or review your current profile and photos.

Let's Replace Likes with Love

When did dating become all about the likes?  You swipe them and collect them.
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But can you easily fall in love through "likes"? And is collecting "likes" even healthy?  
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Love is worth more. This is why we've blended the human touch (matchmaking to some), with technology.  By truly understanding "you" we can find the best matches on your dating journey.  
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Developed by dating experts who see beyond the algorithms, When We First is a different way to date.  
Join the Waitlist to be the first to look beyond the likes.

By clicking "Find A Match" you are consenting to allow When We First to call or use automated or other technology to call, text, email you using the above, including your wireless number if provided, to share information on our services, programs, special offers, and events. Message frequency may vary, messages and data rates may apply. Reply Stop to opt out.
In addition don’t forget to pre-download our app.
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